Being a woman myself, I’m pretty sure that you want to meet someone special who is very supportive, understanding, patience and gentle. You probably saw a friend in your circle that has someone like that and you might ask to yourself “why they can have that kind of relationship? What is the secret?”
Well actually, there are a few secrets that I’ve found myself and if you haven’t found the answer yet, I am more than happy to share it with you.
The fact is, it’s very possible and it’s not even that hard. You just need to know what it is and make it as your habit.
1. Be Interesting
Believe me; you don’t want a partner who is only good looking. Instead, you will want to find someone who you can actually communicate with. This is so important in a relationship, when you find a similarity and mutuality in your relationship, we will definitely feel more comfortable and the chance to impress him will be much bigger. You can start by having small discussion; such as “this food is really nice, I wonder what kind of spices they put inside?”
2. Be Confidence
Sometime, we might feel like we are not good enough or not pretty enough and just gown grade ourselves. If you are doing that now, cut it out immediately! The easiest way is to find something that makes you feel comfortable in your own skin. Maybe the way you dress yourself up? Do you prefer bright or neutral colour?
If you feel like bright colour give you more energy, then start putting on something bright.
Confidence is the key to Attractiveness!
3. Be Playful
As a professional woman, we tend to be perfectionist, too serious and hard on ourselves. But we forget that in relationship, we don’t have to be that way. Men don’t like someone who is too serious. They want to feel relax being with their partner. Leave all the headaches and hard things on work, and when you are with your partner, be you. Be someone who can laugh out loud with your partner, tell jokes or even laugh on ourselves. Of course we need to be serious, but there must be certain time for everything.
4. Be Genuine
Being genuine is something that makes you different from other woman. You don’t need to pretend to be someone else to be likeable. Men like to know the real you. They feel for you and not for someone you are trying so hard to become. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t change yourself to be better person.
Ask yourself,” who am I? What makes me special as myself? How can I be a better version of myself?”
5. Be a Lady
“The more you act like a lady, the more he act like a gentleman” – Sydney Biddle
Now, if you are ready to take these 5 steps, then be ready to get the reaction.
When he already falls for your spell, he will do everything to make you fall for him too. And he also will do everything to make you happy. How good is that?
See, it is not that hard to be irresistible. You just need to know the secret point. Now what you need to do is learn and practice all these tricks daily and make it the better version of “you.”
yours in love & happiness;
Katherine Wei xo